Abi Bee

ENGLAND, UK

“I began the 'How to unlock your attachment style course' hoping to do just that, having reached a point in my life, and relationships, where I was beginning to wonder where I might be going wrong. Not only has the course helped me to work out what my attachment style is and why it is what it is, it has given me so much more. There are layers upon layers in this course and Heather has structured it perfectly so that each step is almost a building block to the next layer. It felt, at times, as if one door were being unlocked after another.

There wasn't a single aspect of the course that wasn't thought-provoking and massively helpful - I filled three and a half journals full of notes and observations from working through the activities in the course. Completing the Inner Child timeline was a massive thing for me and helped me to piece a lot of things together and gain a better understanding. Learning how to forgive and turn grievance into gratitude was another area of the course that has changed my way of thinking. Setting boundaries too - something I hadn't really done and didn't realise the importance of.

I honestly had so many lightbulb moments about myself, my relationships and the role I played in relationships, some of which brought me to tears - the lesson 'What connects all of us - unlock your secret to love,' was one of those moments, as was the lesson on self-limiting beliefs - what a life changer! Even the understanding of how the conscious and subconscious minds operate was mind-blowing for me.

There's absolutely no way I could have come to the understanding I now have through reading books or listening to podcasts alone - it would have taken me years! Heather's knowledge, insight, understanding and empathy are limitless. The group online meet-ups and 1:1s were indispensable. I gained so much from these interactions and was able to let go of the shame that had gripped me for so long. For the first time, at 56, I have boundaries, I have self-love, I am becoming more resilient and know my worth and I feel more at peace with myself than I ever have. I feel that I am consciously creating the life I want. It's truly amazing!”

Lori Simpson

TRENTON, NEW JERSEY

“Heather has made a big impact in my day-to-day perspective, my marriage, and all my relationships. She has challenged my thinking and self-limitations in ways no one has. I could tell from day one, she really cared about me and my family and wanted to help. It took a lot of hard work from me and my husband, but our time with Heather has changed our marriage greatly. She is honest and won't listen to excuses; she does a great job of sifting through the surface issues to get to the root of the conflict. Then she builds you up by enforcing respect, confidence, and a positive outlook. I am able to see my husband for who he is and honor that each day while honoring my own values and goals. I am in control of my own happiness and feel much more fulfilled in everything I choose to do. Thank you for your constant support and for sharing your endless knowledge!”

Jamie Simpson

TRENTON, NEW JERSEY

“If you're ready and willing to put in the work to love yourself, your partner, and your marriage to the best of your abilities, then Heather is the person for you. She does extremely well with listening, explaining, and giving you an unbiased fresh perspective on the issue at hand. She's prompt, professional, relatable, and unequivocally passionate about helping others. Heather has helped revitalize the communication in my marriage and I couldn't be happier. Thank you!”

Kevin & Sarah Barker

TAMPA, FLORIDA

“After a 20-year marriage, we thought it was over. Huge stress, blame, no real communication and little understanding of what it really takes to make a marriage work was taking a huge toll on our lives and marriage. We had a wonderful family and from the outside, it looked like we had the perfect marriage, on the inside, it was much different.

We were stuck not knowing what to really do. Once we connected with Heather it all started to click. She worked with each of us individually and also together to help us both see what it takes to have and maintain a wonderful marriage. It takes work!!

Heather is not some school book-taught therapist that hasn’t lived the lessons she teaches. She’s been through so much that helps her completely understand our issues. We both appreciated the fact that Heather truly tells it like it is and never holds anything back. 100% truth sometimes hurts initially but in the end, it’s what’s best.

Heather has helped each of us individually to find who we each truly are, what our wants needs, goals, and dreams are. She helped bring back the connection and the passion we once had!! It’s even better than it ever was!

We like to say we are on “MARRIAGE 2.0”!!

If it wasn’t for Heather we would be done, it’s really as simple as that. Thank You for so much support, your guidance and so much love.”

Kevin and Sarah Barker

Jason Dietrich

“When I had my first call with Heather, my life was crashing down all around me. I felt like a passenger, along for the ride while everything around me was descending into chaos. I was blind to what was happening right in front of my eyes. My wife had shut herself off from me, both emotionally and physically, and was engaging in multiple affairs at work. We lived in a great house in a wonderful neighborhood, but we were drowning in debt. I was miserable and it was affecting my relationship with my children. I thought my life was over and I was in deep despair.

Through my work with Heather, I rediscovered myself and got my voice back. The fog lifted and I could see things clearly, perhaps for the first time. I was being manipulated by my lying and cheating spouse, and being blamed for everything wrong with our relationship while I fought desperately to repair it to keep our family together. My friends and family supported me, but they saw the physical, mental, and emotional toll this was having on me. They tried convincing me to leave the relationship but Heather gave me the tools and strength to exhaust every last option before making that decision.

The marriage did not survive but it was not for lack of trying on my part and Heather was my champion. I still believe that the relationship could have been saved, but it takes two people to make a marriage and all my effort was only met with more resistance from my wife. I can walk away knowing that I did everything I could and with my integrity intact, and that is a direct result of Heather's support and encouragement.

Now that I am moving forward with my life, Heather continues to be my biggest supporter and takes as much pleasure in my victories as I do. I am astounded when I think about how far I have come and how much I have grown in such a short period of time. Heather supported me, pushed me, held me accountable, and without her help I would be still stuck in the sunken place I had been living in. I am incredibly grateful for everything she has done to help me, and I am so happy knowing she will help many others.”

UPDATE: Jason is getting married! 

Carol K

TEXAS

"Heather Is the most incredible transformation coach I’ve ever worked with. My whole life completely changed after coaching with Heather and continues to change in the best ways day after day. Come ready to do the work and you will not miss your old life again! Heather is an asset and inspiration who truly cares, is compassionate, honest, trustworthy, has a passion for helping/healing, understanding and has an intuition like no other. You want a coach who has done the work on themselves and in turn is truly there for you, rooting for you all the way. Words can’t really describe her and her coaching method. I am so grateful I made a choice to change my life and I chose the perfect coach!  My life changed in the most incredible ways. This is the best gift you will ever receive. Thank you from my whole heart!" 

Katharine Wilson

SEATTLE, WASHINGTON

"Heather helped me find my true happiness and true self by loving me, and challenging me to believe in my own self-worth. She helped improve every relationship I hold dear- my self, my marriage, and my family. If you’re ready to dig deep, resolve all excuses, and change your life, she’ll coach you to it."

Ashley Lindsey

OKLAHOMA

“Hard to express what Heather brought into my world and that of my children! Let’s just get real for a moment: when a mother takes a step to heal and grow it adds tremendous value to her children’s lives! 

I happened upon her Instagram page during one of the most difficult years of the past decade. Something about her words and mission landed deep. I knew I had to dig deeper if I wanted to get through this difficult period stronger and with HOPE. Heather’s energy and vivaciousness for life are contagious. And yet it was her wisdom of experience and living life which sealed the deal. A little back story: I’m over here raising two younger children, recently went through a divorce, sold the home we all loved and am moving forward. It’s not easy by any means but after working with Heather I am hopeful of our future! Of where my path is taking me. Of truly trusting in the flow of life for the first time in years and years!!"